Feeling Confident
August 30th, 2006
I felt really confident today, and made a few social calls.
Jessica @ Co-Op
Jessica and I get on pretty well. She’s jokey and friendly. Definitely someone I’d like to be friends with. With that in mind, I asked her out for a drink as friends. Just friends, as I am happily attached.
- Me
- What ya doing tomorrow?
- Jess
- I’ve got the day off. Why?
- Me
- I thought it’d be cool if we went for a drink, as friends.
She giggled and blushed. She obviously thought I meant more than just friends. She ended up refusing to give me her number but rather took mine.
Positive to take away: reaching out.
To learn from: Got defensive when she said she’d consider it. I wasn’t expecting that! Stay calm. Next time say:”What, you need to consider whether you’d be thirsty tomorrow?”
Entry Filed under: Social Interactions
1 Comment Add your own
1. infekt | August 31st, 2006 at 7:52 am
Hey.
Great idea to track your personal development with social skills. I’ll be definitely checking up on your blog and might be creating one of my own as well
infekt
Leave a Comment
Some HTML allowed:
<a href="" title=""> <abbr title=""> <acronym title=""> <b> <blockquote cite=""> <code> <em> <i> <strike> <strong>
Trackback this post | Subscribe to the comments via RSS Feed